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what advice do you wish that you had
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gotten as newlyweds don’t know yet I
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think the one thing we’re gonna have to
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think about is no it’s not always gonna
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be this easy you are not always right
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but you are not always wrong people show
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their love in different ways her love
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comes in a full culinary meal that’s
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amazing
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mine isn’t just because gifts so it’s
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different and you should compare or I
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have expectations of you know what that
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love looks like a lot of people have
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said that marriage changes everything
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and that it’s gonna bleed to be a
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completely different life but I didn’t
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get that marriage you know is the same
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except you’re just more committed take a
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real honeymoon really trying to get away
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right after the wedding and like spend
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time with each other cuz planning a
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wedding and then also doing the wedding
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it’s like takes a lot out of you and
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sometimes out of the relationship and
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like to really refocus honestly maybe
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one of the best pieces of ice that we
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got was actually from one of her best
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girlfriends who said who said she called
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this one day on the phone and she had
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just got married she said ask me what
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ask me how my married life is and Leila
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goes how’s your married life she goes
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same as the old life you feel I get this
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bag like it must be this huge change and
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it is not to hold each other accountable
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and make sure you keep the partnership
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as one probably something to do with our
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registry I would have liked for someone
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to have guided me and what we actually
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need it just like anything else you have
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to prepare for the unexpected you have
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to prepare for you know lies for sister
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tools I mean you have to play for honey
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have to plan for unexpected seize the
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winter is going to come so prepare for
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it it’s not gonna be Marvin Gaye and
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lingerie all the time
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compromise is the biggest advice I wish
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I would receive meeting someone in the
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middle of look I know this is something
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I don’t want to do but if this will make
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you happier let’s find a happy medium
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nothing gets someone had told me to just
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check selfishness at the door really
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helpful at the very beginning what made
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me more scared about getting married was
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that we gonna be like a lock to each
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other you know like oh we’re gonna be
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like we cannot do anything but with each
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other and I learned that we we have our
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own freedom that’s not true that’s why I
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was scared but now I know it’s like if I
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respect her and I love her I’ll give her
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the space to do anything she wants cuz
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she’s a different person she’s not the
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same as me just enjoy what you have
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right now more because once the babies
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come everything changes and you don’t go
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to movies on Sunday afternoon and you
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don’t sleep late I don’t think I’ve
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slept late in 14 years and so just enjoy
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it and take it slow and just travel to
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you know spend some money if you feel as
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though your spouse has done something
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that you disagree with disagree with
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that particular thing don’t say you
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always do this I think that that causes
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resentment and the fact the fact that
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you’re being characterized is insulting
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knowing that that our lives were going
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on before we met each other and we
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didn’t have to give up our pursuits of
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recreation and the arts or whatever we
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were interested in
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no one’s ever right no one’s ever wrong
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it’s just you’re working things out and
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you’re trying to figure out together I
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think if someone told us that we were
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younger I think thought about it
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no matter how upset you are with each
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other – just try to push through it and
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you know if you could just get over that
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hump with being angry then it does it
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does it does get easier we weren’t
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living together before marriage so
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therefore we had to adjust to now
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sharing quite a bit and being a little
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more tolerant so I think maybe if
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someone were to give me that kind of
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information I think that would have been
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helpful somewhat yeah yeah you listen to
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one another do whatever it takes to
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communicate your feelings and be heard I
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have a tendency to to hold a lot of
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things in and I explode you know I think
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letting loose of your emotions and
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thinking as it happens is more
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beneficial than marriage
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I would say don’t worry it’s going to be
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better down the road and it was I think
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I wish I had gotten the advice that
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would have told us a little bit how the
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relationship changes over the decades if
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you going to survive and you’re gonna
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live together you have to make
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progressions progressive adjustments as
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the years go by at the time the the idea
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was that the man went to work and the
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wife stayed at home and took care of the
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kids and so that I had lot less
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participation with the children than
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most husbands have now and then that I
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would have liked to have had and so and
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I do regret that
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